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  1. Ami from My Mummy Spam

    Your so right with this post. I learnt a long time ago that by holding a grudge the only person I was affecting was me. I now try to just keep the positivity around me as I find that it makes me a much happier and nicer person ๐Ÿ™‚
    #bloggerclubuk

  2. Agent Spitback

    This is so true! It IS so difficult but it can be so healing. I like the burning of the letter idea! Writing is very cathartic for me so that might be most effective for me. Thanks for sharing with #abitofeverything

  3. Great idea Debbie. You know, I really have a grudge against the social worker who lied to have sylvia taken from me. She got punished and was suspended and I got an apology but…I still feel angry and was thinking of writing her an open letter…maybe around the time my story comes out in the papers..not sure of the date yet but..sadly I do have a bit of a grudge!

    • Honestly, in that situation, I think it would next to impossible not to! Just try not to let it negatively affect you. I think an open letter would be a great idea, she should know how her actions affected you, and even if she doesn’t see it, just knowing it’s there would help you a lot I think.

  4. A well timed reminder ๐Ÿ™‚ generally I have always been pretty good at letting go of grudges and moving on. Even if that means not seeing the person that did the wrong doing, its my way of dealing with it. Im not doing it to be spiteful I am doing it to move on. However since being pregnant my emotions are super charged and I find myself very highly strung!! Reading this has reminded me!! Thought provoking as ever my dear. Thank you for joining us at #BloggerClubUK hope to see you again next week xx

    • I don’t think there’s anything wrong with removing negative people from your life. Why waste time on people who bring you down, when it could be spent with loved ones. Yes, I imagine all those pregnancy hormones don’t help though! Thanks for hosting, see you next week ๐Ÿ™‚ x

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