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  1. Sarah Howe

    Lol j wrote about this today. I don’t hate it as it is a nice excuse to spend some time together and maybe have a meal. However, I hate the commercials side…buying a card for your dog?! Xx #binkylinky

  2. It’s funny because I usually totally agree, but this year I have decided to go with it and have bit of fun. My hubby would totally hate me spending money on him, so I decided to do it my own way. For this week leading up to Valentines I have been texting him a gift each day. A couple of days have been pics of me telling him how lucky he is to have me as his awesome wife and that I love him. Other days have been pics of Valentines thing. One day I was in a store where they had a display of love heart shaped balloons so I took a photo and messaged him. Another day I took a pic of a card and sent him that. I have one of a teddy bear to text tomorrow, and a funny star wars card for on the actual day. So I am cheating and not spending anything, but having fun! We have great relationship so we do share our love everyday, but I thought why should only teenagers get the fun this year? #binklinky

  3. Jodie Allen at Makeup to Motherhood

    I definitely don’t hate valentines day – but we don’t do much for it usually. We don’t buy gifts for each other as it’s only 2 weeks after my birthday (although I do occasionally get a bunch of flowers) we tend to stay in, order a pizza and watch a film. We certainly don’t go all out like some people – I love my husband every day… not just valentines day! #BinkyLinky

  4. It’s never really been a big deal for me – my mum’s birthday is on Valentine’s Day so we usually do something for that instead. We do couple’s stuff on St Dwynwen’s day instead which is a) cheaper and b) speaks to our welshness. ๐Ÿ™‚ #effitfriday

  5. SourgirlOhio

    I carry some old V Day wounds from when I was married (my husband passed away) and I don’t really enjoy thinking about it at all, which stinks because it’s EVERYWHERE. Let’s just fast forward to the half priced candy and I’ll be ok.

  6. Kayla

    I’m not super into Valentines day. My husband and I give each other a card but that’s about it. My mum’s birthday is on Valentines day so my whole childhood it was her day ahah x

  7. I used to hate valentines day when I was single, it was just another miserable reminder that I was on my own. Then when I met my now husband, our first valentines day was super romantic and I embraced all things “valentines” and relished in being a couple for the first time in several years. Then the kids came along and now we barely even remember to buy eachother a card, and I am back to hating it because 1, it IS just a money making scheme and 2, I know that my FB will be full of women posting photos of their beautiful gifts and flowers and romantic meals out and part of me will feel slightly resentful that all I got was a crappy card!!! #binkylinky

  8. Tracey Abrahams

    Im not overly bothered by valentines day, I will get Mr AD a card but nothing else. What amazes me is how it seems to be turning into a family thing!!! How to treat your family on valentines day, valentines gifts for your kids…wtf!!!!

    • Yeah I’ve noticed that a lot this year. Everyday is kids day, it would be nice to have a day that’s about the grown ups if you are a parent I would imagine. Surely as a kid it’s pretty cringe having your parents buy you a Valentine’s gift!

  9. Emily

    My husband and I just buy each other a card. I do think it’s a bit daft spending a lot of money on chocolates, flowers etc just for one day. Thanks for linking up to the #BinkyLinky

  10. I am not a believer in Valentine’s Day either. In fact, the only reason I even decided to celebrate it this year was because of my oldest son, who really just didn’t understand why I would hate a day that promotes love so I did something different this year and celebrated it with my kids. I saw that you and Tracey don’t really understand that idea but here’s my view on it…I’ve never celebrated Valentine’s Day with my kids until this year and I am having more fun celebrating with them than I ever did with a man. I am single and I intend to stay that way for as long as possible so why not celebrate it with my kids. They are the most important people in the world to me and my boys were so thankful to be woken up this morning with a surprise from me. They didn’t expect it and seeing the happy surprises on their faces is worth more to me than anything else Valentine’s Day could ever offer. Best of all I didn’t have to be extravagant or break my bank. I just bought them a few small things, made their gift boxes and when they woke up this morning, I gave them something they weren’t expecting. The rest of the day has been just lounging around the house and watching some movies. Later on tonight, after they go to sleep I will do something for myself but I am enjoying my day with my kids and I am in 100% agreement with you that in a relationship, love and appreciation for your significant other should be all year round and not on one day. It just seems not genuine to me.

    • I hope you didn’t find what I said offensive, I’m an each to their own kind and if you want to celebrate with your kids I would never tell you not to. I was just speaking from memory that I would have been mortified if my mum bought me a Valentine’s Day gift, but maybe times are changing! The way you describe it, celebrating it with your kids actually sounds kind of sweet.
      I saw a quote on Facebook I quite liked – “If you only treat you woman like a Queen on Valentine’s Day, you are failing 364 days of the year.” Summed it up nicely for me ๐Ÿ™‚

  11. Agent Spitback

    Desperation Day…LOL…Agree about half priced chocolates on the 15th! A well written post- I was nodding my head along! We don’t particularly do Valentine’s Day because everything is overpriced on this day! Not worth it. A quiet acknowledgement will suffice. #BinkyLinky

  12. Laura @ Life with Baby Kicks

    Totally not a lover. I also hate how much things go up in price for that one day – when you are squeezed in with so many other people. Overhearing conversations? I can’t think of anything less romantic!

  13. Something Crunchy Mummy

    I do agree that there is so much hype for one day and it’s got so much expectation. The hubby and I have never really celebrated it apart from a nice meal at home. Thank you for linking up to #justanotherlinky xx

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